We must learn to stop outsourcing for our own happiness. It is important to not rely on extrinsic conditions, people and circumstances to make you feel happy. You only have yourself to blame for your unhappiness.
Time and time again you hear people say "I'll be happen when.......".
Happiness is a choice. We are responsible for our own happiness. You can't expect to get it from other people. Others may add to your happiness, but they can not make you happy. The reality is that people will disappoint us. Happiness does not come from a store front, nor is it something you can buy from a catalog. Material things can be taken away from us. If you relied on your Coach bogs and luxury cars to make you happy, how would you feel if they were taken away from you? Our society loves to acquire the newest and best of things. The constant burden of trying to keep up is exhausting and never ending, as new technology is always coming out. It is like dangling a carrot on a stick, always moving. Once you make X amount of money, you then increase the amount that will satisfy you. Social media and advertisements do a wonderful job of convincing us we need all these "things" to make us feel good. Lasting and true happiness must come from within. Happiness is a state of mind. Internal happiness is pure. To be truly happy we have to have inner peace and balanced wellness. I recommend practicing meditation daily to help you achieve happiness. Listen to your heart. Live in alignment with your intuition and let go of the facade.